March

Posted by lommiles on Feb 28, 2010

I just looked up to see it snowing big fat flakes again! The sun was out and it was warm for a couple hours. Warm being a relative term, of course. Dave enjoys having the front door open so he can see the world through the storm door. Sometimes he even wheels himself onto the front deck altho he needs help getting back in the house again.
His feet are healing well. He’s off the pain meds except at night. We see the surgeon again on Tues and fortunately the newest storm is scheduled for Wed instead.
I get out about once a week or so to get library books, dvds, etc. and pick up groceries. Friends are still bringing in meals which is a huge help. Some days I think all I do is wash dishes, put out meals and empty the chamber pot. Now I’ve caught a cold as well so Dave is feeling alot more active than I am. Well, we’ll get out on Tues and see what else he wants to do then.
Meanwhile, we’re still here and looking forward to spring.


Good News, Bad News

Posted by lommiles on Feb 28, 2010

 

So, on Monday 1 Feb, I went to get my biometrics (electronic fingerprints and facial recognition photo) taken for the British Consulate and my student visa. Since we had the whole day in Philly, we even stopped at a PO and mailed all the info posthaste to CA. (I don’t know why the visa office is in LosAngelos.) And visited our son and his family there. Then on Tuesday, Feb 2nd, Dave celebrated Ground Hogs Day in the hospital.
 
The good news is: Dave landed on his feet.
The bad news is: he slid off the roof on the shed he and Reuben are building on the farm and fell 11′ onto frozen ground. (Yes, OUCH!)
 
Good news: the ER was amazed at how little damage he did to his body. From the ankles up, he has barely a scratch.
Bad news: From the ankles down he dislocated, fractured, smashed and “nutcrackered” various bones. (There are pictures on Facebook if you care or are inclined that way.)
 
Good news: The trauma orthopedic dr. says that they don’t treat this damage like Napolean’s surgeon Lisfranc did – by amputation!
Bad news: He won’t be able to put weight on his left foot for at least 6 weeks post op, 8-12 wks for the right. The one Napoleon’s dr. would’ve removed.
 
Good news: He will be able to walk again
Bad news: His feet will be stiff and not like uneven ground. So no marathons or all day hikes on the Appalachian
 
Good news: He has really good upper body strength  which he developed by working on the shed…..
Bad news:   His trauma dr. says he doesn’t have a leg to stand on! :-D  
 
Good news:    the grandkids will be more than happy to help Gpa and keep him occupied by playing games 
Bad news:    Gpa can’t get up and leave when he’s tired of games
 
Good news: Dave has a really high pain threshold
Bad news:    He’s not getting any of the really good meds to take home for me!
 
Good news: The drs did a full body scan because there are usually other traumas (leg, spine, head) from that kind of fall. No other damage occured!
Bad news:    They found a mass in/on his small intestine that has to be removed so they’ll stabilize his feet first and then talk about doing the abdominal surgery soon thereafter.
 
Good news: We are home now for a couple weeks until the swelling goes down so they can do the surgery.
Bad news:    I am not going back to Scotland this year!
 
Good news: My visa was waiting for me when we got home from the hospital tonite.
Bad news:    I have to figure out how to contact the powers-that-be so I won’t be persona non grata in the UK for the rest of my life!
 
Good news: My supervisor was very understanding and figures if God wants me to finish in the future, he will make a way for me to get back there in his time. Meanwhile, Dave and I are both experiencing the concrete application of my thesis: Choosing God’s choice for oneself, being available to live out that choice, and being as “obedient as a corpse” who is moved by others without objections and protests.
 
More good news: friends and family have rallied around us and helped with the immediate and practical needs as well as prayers and visits. Thanks very much to everyone.


Christmas Greetings

Posted by lommiles on Dec 21, 2009

2009 Miles Christmas 2009

Warm and Merry Christmas Greetings to All

 

July 2009  Dave & Lo Grover MilesThis year proved less fruitful academically than I expected but more productive than expected with regard to the grandchildren. My brain has finally recovered and plans are progressing to return to Scotland as early as possible in 2010. But the big surprise was that instead of the four grandchildren expected this year, we have had six—with another one due in April. Since all the brothers were having babies, Tessa and Reuben produced twins. Does anyone think the family is competitive?

 In April I went to a theology conference in Wheaton, enjoyed running into a couple of colleagues from Aberdeen as well as hearing both Gordon Fee and his daughter speak.

 The highlight ofAndrew 6 m portrait the weekend, however, was meeting Andrew Michael Miles on his birth day April 16th. Karl andKarl Cori Andrew Palms Cori have been enjoying watching him grow and acquire skills quickly. At seven months he is taking steps by himself, playing soccer and has 6 teeth. Cori insists that her physical therapy occupation is not a factor and Karl at home playing with the boy all day isn’t either. Or so we are told. Meanwhile, Karl has found a promoter and is expecting to go on a Midwest tour in spring with a live band. Other exciting news includes grandbaby number fifteen who is due in April 2010 as Karl and Cori hatch their “Irish twin.” Their doctor said this baby had miscarried and recommended a d&c. They decided to wait for nature to take its course and discovered the next week that the dr. was wrong. This ‘Lazarus’ baby is alive and well and they’ve changed doctors.

 

twins  0066The same day Andrew was born, Tessa found out that she was expecting twins! ThreeTessa, Reuben  June 2009 Annika, Simeon, Brigitta, Blaise, Gwendolyn, Isadora weeks later, Gwendolyn Marie and Isadora Grace were born on May 7th and 8th. Yes, 10 min. before and 10 min. after midnight! No, they are not identical but it is easier to tell them apart when Gwen wears green and Isa wears pink. So summer was busy what with adjusting to the demands and space requirements of two babies. Laundry, homeschooling and feeding the troops fills the days. Tessa didn’t get as much canning done as usual but the twins are cuter than a wall full of jars any day.

 

Mani laptopOn Monday the 11th, Teri and Rachel’s baby Immanuel David arrived. (He does look like his namesake, doesn’t he!) Three weeks later they left for classes at U of North Dakota in Grand Forks with Wycliffe’s SIL program. But it worked out well and they became interested in Wycliffe’s prograIMG_1313m translating the Bible for deaf communities. They have two more summers in ND to finish their masters’ in linguistics. At home, Rachel is still teaching and administrating in a St. Louis charter school while Teri has taken on the role of Mr. Mom. Everyone seems to be thriving. We enjoyed visiting them in ND and took them over to visit our Nordeen-Johnston roots in Bemidji and Hines, MN, a short jaunt away from their classes.

 

 

 Randy and Shari  Miles, Micah, Serena, EliasSept 2009 EliasFive weeks after Immanuel’s arrival, Randy and Shari produced Elias David on June 22. That made five grandbabies in ten weeks. Micah and Serena are quite thrilled with this happy and cheerful brother. Randy is still content his quantum physics/chemistry research and gardening. Shari has survived sending Micah off to kindergarten and being involved in numerous mom’s activities at their church.

 

July 2009 Jms Tina Will AlexWe took our usual July trip to the Midwest in order to visit family including Andrew and JmsTinaMarcusImmanuel. And, very conveniently we are able to stop by Indy to visit James and Tina and the kids on every trip. James decided to leave his IT job and join the team at Charles Schwab this fall. Will also started Kindergarten and loves math. Alex loves his preschool and recreates Nascar races with his toys. Not to be outdone by the siblings, James’s third baby Marcus Allen–our fourteenth grandbaby– arrived Dec 18th.

 

Dave was finally let go from his job of 20+ years at IR/Volvo on September 30th so the next day we packed up theIMG_0226 Grand Canyon rainbow car and left on a month long tour of the Southwest. Dave had never seen the Grand Canyon or the Rockies from ground level so this was our opportunity. Our goals were to see the Grand Canyon, visit my sister in Santa Barbara, visit Dave’s sister in Salt Lake City and return to St. Louis at the end of October for Immanuel’s dedication. Everything else was serendipitous! On leaving St. Louis, we discovered that we were inadvertently following The Historic Route 66! So, we enjoyed a Route 66 museum in Missouri, a Uranium mining museum in New Mexico. We took a bus tour of Santa Fe and visited the Georgia O’Keefe Museum. We drove through the Painted Desert and the Petrified Forest. We spent a night with good friends in AZ and wished we had a week to IMG_0328 Grand Canyon Lo edgespend there. On our way to the Grand Canyon we drove past a sign for the Meteor Crater and stopped to see that. It really was the great Meteor Crater we’ve heard about all these years! What fun!IMG_0179 Meteor crater

Driving up the East side of the Canyon we meandered through the Navajo Reservation and then along the South Rim of the Grand Canyon to the main lodge area. By mid-afternoon I started feeling the effects of the altitude so we headed on down to Williams, AZ for the night. I guess that’s what happens when one spends 2 years at sea level in Scotland. Apparently high latitudes and high altitudes have nothing in common. Who knew! In Williams we ate at the only diner in town — with a lot of people we’d seen on the Canyon wall — after which we drove out of town to enjoy the zillions of stars only visible in the desert sky.

 IMG_0403 B's Diner Rt 66 BarstowOur trip through the desert and mountains to Santa Barbara had a couple interesting stops. After looking for a place to eat lunch in English, we finally stopped at a gas station/diner. On noting the updated and hygienic lavatories we decided it could be a viable option for victuals. Lo and behold, it was a Route 66 diner with retro tiled walls and banquettes, posters of Elvis and Marilyn and huge platters of good hot food. The other interesting event was a tractor pulling up to the pumps for gas. Oh, and the other diner who was wearing an Elvis toupee. Lovely.

 

IMG_0426IMG_0418We had a relaxing visit at my sister’s in SB, took a whale watch tour on a sailboat and saw sea lions and birds – no whales — and enjoyed the quiet ocean air for a couple hours. Betty and I knit and watched Numb3rs. We went to early church discovering on arrival that everyone else came in their pajamas because of the youth sleep-over. We had way over-dressed! Then we met Jeff at the East Beach for brunch with the seagulls. Monday we drove up to Solvang, the Danish heritage tourist trap, to visit the knitting stores. Betty and I had a good time and the hubbies were both most tolerant.

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Tues we left for Salt Lake City and just made it to the Hoover Dam 5 minutes before the last tour. Dave dashed off toIMG_0562 catch that while I moseyed on down to the outdoor café and shop. He took pictures of the generators. The next day we toured Zion National Park, an amazing place well worth many days of adventure although we had only one. We made it to Dave’s sister’s in Salt Lake City that evening and enjoyed their hospitality. We really enjoyed driving through all the open spaces with mountains and plateaus and deserts surrounding us. Amazing how much empty space there is – amazing how much desert there is in this country. Who knew the East was such an unusually verdant rainy land! We toured the Mormon Square, surprised that symbolism is so entirely foreign to their life and theology. Niece Kristen was kind enough to fly down to her folks for the weekend so IMG_0927IMG_0905we could see Ellianna, another spring ’09 baby. Park City and Antelope Island occupied us the next day. I walked around the block in Park City, bought some yarn, and discovered I was not enjoying the altitude there now either! Fortunately, Antelope Island was on the Salt Lake so I could recover there.

 

The next day we took 70 across Utah to the Rockies and I realized that I would not be enjoying the mountains what with my inability to adjust to altitudes. So Dave dropped me off at “our weekend cabin in Denver” i.e., Karl’s friends IMG_0999Troy and Jenny. Evie (age 4) determined that I was her special company as we sat on the couch and had private conversations and knit. Dave drove up as far as he wanted as fast as he wanted and saw the Rockies in the snow! We visited the Red Rock Amphitheatre and Dave drove down to Pike’s Peak – another opportunity to drive recklessly with no cringing spouse. Monday we visited James Dobson’s recording studio thanks to our son’s friend who works at Focus on the Family and gave us a private tour of his area. We then headed IMG_1134back to St. Louis, stopping in Salina, KS to visit more family roots. We toured the farm vehicle museum and the history museum. It was nice to have the time to visit random things we found interesting. We discovered that we enjoy seeing the amazing natural wonders and family and agricultural history a lot more than urban culture. These are good things to know in order to plan our next adventures. Still on David’s list of things to see is Yellowstone Park.

 

In December, my folks came up from Florida to visit and meet the twins. They are the first twins we know of in any branch of the family tree (other than one set of identical second cousins on my dad’s side). We had a Grover Christmas celebration with Tessa’s and Randy’s families – nine of their fourteen great-grandchildren. And it was the coldest week of the year just because the Floridians came.

What now?

Dave has had a few interviews for new jobs but is beginning to wonder if he even wants to start over at a new job. Reuben and the grandkids are keeping him plenty busy as it is! Reuben is farming our land, developing an organic vegetable market called Willow Haven Farm. www.willowhavenfarmpa.com. Right now Dave and Reuben are building a market shed behind the house so he can prep and deliver his veggies more efficiently. Everyone is enjoying Daddy and Grandpa being home most of the time. Dave is still involved in Bible Study Fellowship and Choir although his deacon term has ended. He is looking into serving in ministry if anyone would have need of his Oracle and SQL database experience.

 

I am planning to head back to Scotland by February. Lord willing and my visa comes through. I’ll be there for at least six months and up to two years depending on my supervisor’s wishes. I have no intentions to be doing this after I turn sixty! There are too many grandchildren to visit and I’ve enjoyed my time at home too much!

Grandkids_0074 Meanwhile, we wish you all the peace and joy that passes all understanding.

 Christmas Blessings,

 Dave & Lo

 

(We’re on Facebook, too, now, in order to keep up with the kids!)


Number Fourteen

Posted by lommiles on Dec 21, 2009

As stated in our last blog, months and months ago, another addition was due in December. So here it is:  Our latest grandbaby was born  this very weekend. James and Tina enjoyed a weekend retreat at their local hospital and the doorprize was Marcus Allen! At 7# 5 oz., 19″,  he was the smallest of their boys but he is healthy, kicking, moderately happy and very hungry!


Lucky Thirteen

Posted by lommiles on Jun 24, 2009

Here’s the latest grandbaby and last until Dec.
Elias David, third of Randy and Shari
June 22nd – born on his uncle’s birthday so we conveniently don’t have to remember another birthday.
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Since you asked……

Posted by lommiles on May 13, 2009

What with all the babies, the new moms have been asking who their babies look like. Some have thought they looked like strangers. (How could THAT be?!?) But I can reassure you all: the babies look like Miles’ babies. With a few distinctives. You were more than a rent-a-womb. These babies were not fully formed embryos implanted in a garden in the hopes that a perfect man-child would be born. Woe to the garden that let a cold east breeze pass by or gazed upon a montrous animal and thus a female or some other defective monster came to birth. Indeed, the dark hair that doesn’t turn blond in a month must be expressing your genetic code. So, too, are the different mouths and chins. Oh, is that hairline not halfway up the skull? That must be from the mom then. Unfortunately, some of these babies look more like their uncles than their dads. Not to fear. There may be some lovely personality traits that follow. Or odd ones. Depending.

Going really back in time, I’ll put up a long ago shot of my brother and me. I would’ve been about 3 at the time and it looks like he is about 12- 18  months or so.

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They used to take pictures the same day babies were born. So T and WJ look a little beat up yet.

 

 

 

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 Number 3 and that’s a fox not a cat. I don’t know why. It was cutes.

 

 

 

 

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See! Now the babies are looking a little more together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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and Number 5

 

 

 

 

 

Now for the fun part - here are  the 2-3 month pictures. 9-wk-tessa

 

 

Isn’t she adorable?

 

 

 

 

 

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So, big deal. He gets two pictures. He was cute then. Just think of one of them as the fifth baby and we’re even.

 

 

 

 

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So happy! I made these overalls with leftovers from his dad’s leisure suit. They were both quite dashing and styling!

 

 

 

 

 

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Unfortunately, Number 5 has no official 3 month pictures. I am sure we would have had one, except I was doing rather poorly after that birth so maybe that was one more thing I neglected. Along with his shots. He did get his shots – finally – by kindergarten.

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But to rectify that oversight, we will now post many many pictures that include the fifth.

Look at the hair! It was very stylin’ in those days. And I couldn’t have survived this baby  without my sister. And my mom.

 

 

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Great Grandma N. and all the kids.

 

 

 

 

 

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Grandpa G’s birthday party in May 1982.

 

 

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WJM and T. What loving brothers.

 

 

 

 

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This is one of my favorite pictures. A very typical night, too, until T1 got tired of sharing her bed. T2 would’ve still been in the crib so that’s why he’s not part of the puppy pile.

 

 

 

I hope you’ve enjoyed this long ago and far away tour. Hope it helps you figure out who your babies look like!!


Since the last post

Posted by lommiles on May 13, 2009

OK. In the last update we announced the birth of K’s baby.

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Just in case you’ve forgotten, here is another picture.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Interestingly, on  the same day he was born, our daughter found out she had twins. That moved her due date up a bit. And required a lot of thinking: how to put 2 babies in their room; have to pick out more names; where to get 2 car seats; Oops, the car is too small so we need a bigger one.  I’m sure you can imagine all the questions. Fortunately, I got home in order to almost settle in before the twins arrived. Three weeks after she found out, the twins were born. The family thought it would be good to have a boy and a girl in order to keep the family even. However, the Creator’s humor was evident and just evened out the general grandchildren’s sexes. We now have 5 grandgirls and 7 grandboys and 2 so far unidentified. hmm. Also, just for the fun of it, the girls have different birthdays. Baby G was born 10 min before midnite and Baby I was born 10 min. after. They will have fun explaining that for the rest of their lives!

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Mom had no drugs and no stitches. Baby I had turned around and decided to be breech. But the midwife and the OB had no problems delivering her feet first. Babies were both in the mid 6 pound range – nice and healthy and big enough to go home the next day.

 

 

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No, they aren’t identical but they are so much alike that until more distinguishing characterists develop, Baby G will be dressed in greens and Baby I in pinks. Fortunately, the clothes we have generally fit into those families. Baby I’s hair is turning lighter and Baby G’s is still dark for some reason.

The older kids are quite happy with them. B-boy is completely enamored with them and insists on holding them whenever allowed. Even at the age of 2.5, he is very good with them. Other than his fascination with the eyes.

So, Grandbabies 10 & 11 arrived on Thursday and Friday and we heard from our youngest son the next day  that they were working on evicting their baby too. Grandbaby #12 arrived on Monday.

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Monday’s Child.

 

 

 

 

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So, our baby thinks that his baby is “the cutest baby in the whole world!” Of course, his siblings question his opinion.

 

 

Here’s a side by side of the April boy with the May boy:

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So, one is dark haired and one is blonde. I hardly think that will make for a cuteness differential.

Christmas will be highly entertaining this year with 5 six month olds.


Belly up to the bar

Posted by lommiles on May 3, 2009

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May 2nd

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Baby #9

Posted by lommiles on Apr 18, 2009

Andrew Michael

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  8 lbs; 14 oz. 20″

 

 

 

 

 

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Rather big feet!

 

 

 

 

 

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Nursing fine and doing well. Looks like my babies except the hair is darker.


Easter Egg Hunt

Posted by lommiles on Apr 12, 2009

For your viewing pleasure: Pictures of the fantabulous egg hunt at the wee house. Dave hid 70+ eggs on the crochet lawn. The flat lawn west of the house.

But first, let’s look at the IL egg hunt. See the girls hiding really big eggs under their shirts?

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This is how exciting the hunt was! And how high eggs were laid by the easter bunny. In the lilac bush?

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Also note how warm the parents are bundled up compared to the IL people.

Here  the moms are chatting. Note the same very excited parental unit behind them.

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The Easter bunny hauled all the kids toys out onto the croquet lawn so he’d have things to hide the eggs on, under, around.

 

 

 

 

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Rena wandered around and found enough eggs and then went to play in the play house.

 

 

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B-girl was happy with finding her quota of eggs and plastic duckies. So she was happy playing with Rena.

 

 

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It is really hard taking pictures of kids hunting eggs. They move too fast. Or they turn around and stand in the way so the camera only sees their hinder quarters rather than the hand and egg.

 

 

 

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The easter bunny decided that the yellow eggs were for the littlest ones. The pink ones were for the middlish kids and the green and blue ones were for the over 6 yrs old and boy did they have to hunt for them!

 

 

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M-man showing off the TINIEST egg!

 

 

 

 

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And B-girl shows off the plastic sports duck she found!

 

 

 

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Happy B-boy has a blue egg!

 

 

 

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M-man driving the JD tractor. Yes, the obligatory tractor picture!

 

 

 

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The hunting herd.

 

 

 

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And the local family in the Big House. Soon the girls will have to reorder their positions so Mom isn’t hidden. Maybe in a  year or two Mom will have to stand in front of A-girl?

 

 

 

All for now! The kids are gone; the car is packed and I’ll see the rest of you this week.